Do you know what you want in life?
This is a big question, but setting long terms goals and being intentional about your vision
for your life can sometime be an area where there can be a lot of uncertainty, stress and
discomfort. Leaving you feeling lost, alone, confused, empty and frustrated with a huge
knock on your confidence in yourself, your ideas and your vision for your life which stifles
your ability to move forward and act on your dreams.
You may also be in a position right now when you don’t know what you want but you know
you don’t want where you are …. or you know what you want, you just don’t know how to
make it happen…
Well I am firstly going to tell you the good news, that it’s ok to not know what you want or
how to achieve your goals sometime; and secondly the great news is that this sometime is a
great place to start. When you come to a time in your life when things have to and need to
change and you need to transform the way in which you do things in a radically different
way in order to be happy, fulfilled and live life fully expressed in your truth and in a way you
want.
If you are at a point in life where you are feeling stuck and uncomfortable and know that
there is more to life than this and that there is a better way to live and exist! Keep going and
know that YES there is a better way for you and it is possible.
If you desire more meaning, using your full capabilities, whilst keeping your personal
relationships happy and balanced; and you have a deep desire to step up and make a
difference in the world in an authentic way, doing something you love whilst having more
freedom and flexibility but just not sure how to make this happen?
That’s ok right now, just know that your dream is totally possible.
If this is where you are in life right now, how amazing as one thing I have learnt and would
like to remind you is to keep going, never give up as the biggest win`s in life come after the
biggest storms.
The storm and being uncomfortable can be an uncomfortable place to be but, the storm is a
necessary part of personal growth; the storm is meant to challenge you, make you face your
fears head on, it’s meant to shake you up, it can turn upside and inside out but it always
brings you out the other side stronger, a better version of yourself, more confident, more
passionate and with a clarity on the way forward so that you can step into the space you
desire.
3 Tools to help you through the storms of life
- Manage your mindset – Keep positive and focused on what you want to stay on track. It`s
so easy to start doubting yourself and your abilities which will steer you away from your
goals. - Emotional Support – The right positive emotional support and guidance from a trusted
friend, family member, mentor or coach, who wants you to win and has your best interest at
heart, is vital to moving through and navigating a storm. - Take small action steps – During stormy patches you have to take inspired action and even
if its baby steps towards your vision for your life this is all that it takes… Keep your eye on
your goal and stay true to your values as you consistently gain momentum in the right
direction.
With the right mindset and support you shall get their faster with more clarity, but you have
to take the steps forward, you have to take action to start creating the life you desire and to
bring your dreams and goals alive.
Debra McCreedy
Confidence coach
www.debramccreedy.com
Work With Me – On-line 1:1 & Group Coaching Sessions
